Can’t Mommies Be Teachers, Too?
Ken* is 3 years old. He is enrolled in our Playschool program. He is a typical playful little boy who wants to play all the time. And that’s nice because kids learn by playing.
Ken’s memory span, however, is too short. He tends to forget easily. It’s as if he doesn’t remember any of the lessons, both previous and current. Another thing is that, he doesn’t do his homework. No matter how many times his teacher gives instructions to his nanny about Ken’s homework, the little boy always comes to school with assignment undone. It seems like no one is checking the boy’s lessons at home. But when teacher asked where mommy works, she found out that mommy is a plain housewife. Ken is an only child (so far) so there is no baby to keep mommy busy. So, teacher set a meeting with mommy and told her about the undone homework and Ken’s difficulty in coping with the lessons.
The following week, when Ken gave his Assignment notebook, his homework was done. It was neatly done, very neatly in fact, pictures perfectly colored and lines perfectly traced. It was obviously done by a much, much older person, Mommy for instance.
Last Friday, Ken’s class was given their first Assessment Test. He didn’t get any score. He didn’t recognize any color, any shape, any number or any letter of the alphabet.
His teacher was frustrated. She feels as if she’s not being effective. She said..
“I simply wish someone will take the time to guide and do a follow-up on Ken’s lessons at home..”
I told her so do I. But I said it’s OK. Ken is still young. A lot of things may still happen in the future. We can only do our work and hope for the best.
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Ouch! You know I grew up with very little help from my mom when doing homeworks and all…I never blamed her because I was truly independent and I know that she has a lot to do at work. Now that I am a mom I find it difficult to help my kids since I expect them to know and do things just as I did. I am a housewife (3 kids), I have a freelance job as a translator that I do at home and I do home keeping too – I won’t justify myself but I can’t say why a mom as you said, plain housewife- can’t help her kid…
aww so sad. i’m a housewife too but with various online job. when my little zoie went to summer school last summer i teach and help her with her assignments. whenever i’m not available, hubby is always there to help me with her.
i’m not saying she’s a bad mom, but hopefully she’ll realize her role in teaching her kid/s. teaching may not be a fun time always, but we can make it fun and at the same time a bonding time with your kid/s.
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Yes, Ken is still very young, he’s just three years old. Maybe the mommy recognized that Ken does not want to do his homework and only attend school because he just want to play with other kids. Ken can still be guided patiently until he learns to love school work. Thanks for the post. God bless you all always.
At his age, its good to start implementing rules but make sure to do it the fun way to catch his interest.